To the parent that says they don't care, but had time to write an entire paragraph on a 12 year old girl that attends the same school as your niece-who do you really think you are fooling. Clearly you care. The bigger question is why do you care so much about someone's parenting decision? Focus on your own family. These things should not bother you. In the grand scheme of life, there are bigger issues than youth lacrosse.