Your unhealthy for the lax community. Like said to another poster yesterday. We don't care about you. Worry about yourself and if you don't like it get off the thread and don't read it but you can't help yourself. Instead you'll try and guess everybody's individual situation. How about you get a job and be one of "the upper middle class". You need to know what's going on with your children's surroundings, negative especially. And for the guy who says people live through their daughters wishing they had sons. Speak for yourself dude. Get help. Speak to someone but either take the good with the bad or don't read.