I am far from the "everyone gets a medal" parent...and this is not my first go around. What you need to realize is that anything that is happening before they get into High School is really irrelevant except for the fact they should be learning and improving year after year. There are no "Big" games at 10 years old. What you should be instilling in your daughter is the desire to be a better player....so if they are not getting enough playing time now, commitment and practice will hopefully get them more time on the field.

I can assure you that you should spend time on the academic side and do not forget to stress the importance of grades. This will be a huge factor when/if the girls get recruited. There is only so much money around when it comes to athletics (D1 & D2)...and there will be more academic (merit scholarship) money available. I apologize if I insulted you in my original post...I just feel that some folks need to relax and refocus.