This back and forth crap is so silly! Why would anyone really care where kids play? The only kid you should be worried about is your OWN!! If kids are happy where they are then they stay, if not they leave. We are fortunate that LI had an over abundance of places to go! For all the money we as pantents lay out (regardless of the club) you shouldn't be at a place you're unhappy with. If my daughter's teammates are unhappy and leave, I wish them all the best. I wouldn't want her playing an entire summer with kids and parents that were miserable. I cannot understand the OBSESSION some people have with what kids are staying/leaving a club, play where you're happy and stop worrying about what everyone else is doing!