I think it comes down to anything built on parents it will never last. It has to be someone/something that is for a large goal of being the top club. Not I need a good team for my son to play on. Also what people want is a clear misson. Not this lets do whats best for the kids. The crazy we want the best and only the best to win and go to college to play lacrosse kids. Is why Madlax works. They show tryout after tryout that they are going to take the best no matter if you have a last name or not. I have seen it everytime at the 3 tryouts a year they have at Madlax.