So is this Cabell or his wife answering all these posts. Do you have any idea how big of a tool you look?

If you are not Cabell or his wife, why do you seem so personally offended? You or your husband are a terrible human being. All the begging and pleading and bitching and moaning you(he) do(es) here will never change who you(or your husband) are at your(his) core.