I think the main kid getting hurt by this is the kid on age and small for his age. Who has not hit his growth spurt yet. This is the kid who is being cut or benched for a older kid stealing his spot. That is the real issue. The main thing is for your kids to become better players. And my small on age son is getting benched and not getting better. He should be on the field but if you count up the 30 reclass kids at 2019 from the 10 top clubs thats a lot of starting spots.