" playing with 5th gade girls in a 4th grade league"
Always amazes me someone always claims the other team is cheating when one team is just clearly better .Maybe their kids work harder then yours maybe they are just more athletic maybe they just got lucky that day who knows but if you feel they are cheating then stop being a coward and say how you know this.What number is the kid that is too old ?Sad that some parents just cannot accept the fact that some kids excel at an early age while others do not, don't worry about it some kids are late to develope.