You do realize that college coaches are looking at individuals right? They are NOT recruiting a team. The tournaments/showcase events are what matter.
If a kid has the stuff and is seen on any team that a college coach is watching, they will be found.
The exposure is what is important, so if the team your child is on is going to these events, doesn't matter what team he/she is on.
YJ do not have the front seat, however, they do know what events to attend.
My kid attends a non power lacrosse school and we live in a non lacrosse feeding area, yet we still had a college coach watching a game the other day. Go figure.