"My daughter has to be better than everyone els on the field at try outs, if she's not she's cut , thats pressure, thats how a director knows a girl can handle it ."
I would be willing to bet that other parents and some of the coaches do not believe your daughter was the single best player on the field so stop being so dramatic.If your child tries the best they can that is enough.Which of Carols basic philosophies do you disagree with ? I am amazed that you know her so well as to know her philosophy.