Wow...and this is coming from a parent who has been through the process all the way through a top d1 college...as good as you think your daughter and her friends are..when they get out of pee wee.. (below jv level) you are going to find as you travel around the country that your team will be the ones going for ices and looking silly. Let the girls grow..develop and try not to make fun of the other girls, they may be the one that takes the last full ride on your daughters dream college team. Your kid is talented not you so just relax there is a life outside of long island pee wee lacrosse.