Originally Posted by Anonymous
Don't you get it? Winning at club ball really doesn't matter anymore. It's a nice bonus, but my commited son on cares about his own performance. They could blow out every team, but if he does not play well, he considers himself a loser! Now, HS games are a little different story, because they actually count for something [quote]

Well that says it all doesn't it- "my committed son only cares about his own performance."- How you gonna win like that? That mindset should be corrected immediately- showcase tournaments are no exception.


If my son does not perform well, not only does he let himself down, he let's his team down. He might even cost them the game. He knows he must step up everytime he steps on. Play his best. Mistakes will happen but are used as a learning experience. If all kids thought this way, the team will excell. Do you get in now?