Says the dad whose kid has no interest, stop being jealous, it's unbecoming. Commitments are real sorry you don't have one. [/quote]

Don't be silly yourself, they are real, but they are like an engagement, your kid isn't married yet and sometimes engagements are broken, even when both parties enter into them with the most sincere intentions. It doesn't mean you shouldn't get engaged, but the deal has not been sealed. The longer the engagement the greater the chance someone will get cold feet.