Absolutely true… know of a former HS AA who had his $ and spot given away by the school he committed early to. Luckily he was a good student and ended up at a better lax and academic school where he led team in goal scoring for multiple years while also going pro. If his money wasn't safe idk whose is.
Please stop already. Every situation, every coach, every school is ALL different. If your son keeps his end of the early agreement, they school will...fact.
