Don't you get it? Winning at club ball really doesn't matter anymore. It's a nice bonus, but my commited son on cares about his own performance. They could blow out every team, but if he does not play well, he considers himself a loser! Now, HS games are a little different story, because they actually count for something [quote]

Well that says it all doesn't it- "my committed son only cares about his own performance."- How you gonna win like that? That mindset should be corrected immediately- showcase tournaments are no exception.