My second son is going to a SUNY school, will have zero debt upon graduation and will be on solid ground. My oldest son attended Cornell, has $110,000+ in student debt and has not found a good job in his chosen field.
Think post-grad people, before allowing or encouraging your son to chase a lacrosse dream. Its foolhardy in most cases.
Debt is caustic.
The SUNY schools are great values, and when it comes to Albany and Stony Brook also very good lacrosse programs.