This board is mostly devoid of anything but name calling - but this sounds like incredibly sound advice. Few if any kids are getting full rides to play D1 lacrosse. The madness chasing early commitments is just insane.

I believe my 2020 son might have the skills and determination to play D1 lacrosse - or maybe not. Time will tell.

However - I would never allow him to commit to a school in the 9th grade UNLESS it was an Ivy or program with an impeccable academic reputation. Otherwise I will make him wait.