What are the total fees for different clubs? What are you paying and what club do you play for?
Usually close to $3k includes tourney fees, practices.
Winter indoor league, small group training or team strength/conditioning are extra. Sometimes there is an optional tourney or two which is a la carte.
Obviously travel and hotel are extra for PA,Jersey tourneys.
If you are looking for a cheaper club, Crush is the cheapest by far. But play in far fewer tourneys (never leave MD) are aren't competitive at the A leve.