When you say "older kid", does that mean they are in 7th grade? I am not completely following. If a team plays in grade based tournaments, and all the players are 2023 grad year, IS that CHEATING?
This site focus should be education about the game and forums about rules and where the game is going in the future. For instance, why has the boy's/men's game has become boring on offense because the fast break hardly exists? The shot clock not helping that much from what I can see. And I would never say I know everything about the game, just would like those types of discussions.
Best of luck to all teams this season.