Develop, compete, be a good teammate, persevere to name a few. BTW... pretty sure coaches are looking for those things much more than who wins the HOCO league or a tournament. Those traits will also be far more important in life.
Winning is a habit in life and so is losing. Not saying you're going to win everything, but if you prepare to win and position yourself on a team with potential you will win more than you lose.
