Chaminade is a great school. You may be a big fish in a small pond, but when you get there you see the level of competetion. Yeah you lit it up for CYO but now try to make the Chaminade basketball team! Same for soccer, baseball, etc. Football and lax are actually better in the sense that they take more kids. The problem with lax is 100 kids show up and 90% can play.....Say what you want, but you have to have skill to get on that team. Older sons have gone through this before.