You really don't think this is a conflict? If your kid didn't play for her HS coaches club yet some of the kids on her HS team did you don't think that's a problem? Don't you think the coach should be beyond reproach? Amazed you don't see any issue. No different than paying the math teacher for extra help all year. If my kid got a better grade after paying (whether earned or not) don't you think those who didn't pay would have questions?
If they were allowed to pay the math teacher they would.
There is a definite conflict of interest.
The parents who do not see it are the ones who have no problem paying and kissing [ChillLaxin]. The parents who come on here and tell you to suck it up and stop whining are the very same ones who are emailing, texting and making phone calls behind the scene to "advocate" for their kid. They are the very same parents who have been calling and emailing the teachers, principles, coaches and Athletic Directors on behalf of their kids for years. These parents do not expect their kid to be judged by the kids ability, they preemptively attempt to "develop a relationship" with all who might be able to help their kid. They know how to play the game and the coaches, teachers, AD's etc... eat it up.
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