Oh that's precious - "value system". Coming from probably a Maryland lacrosse parent - that's hilarious. How old is your daughter? How many years did you hold her back?
Hold backs are a boys lacrosse tactic, dip stick.
If you don't think there are holdbacks in girl's lacrosse, you need to wake the [lacrosse] up.
Please tell me what schools these girls are repeating grades. I have had kids in Baltimore private schools for 10 years now and know of one girl that has repeated a grade. Boys are another story.
LI coaches feed this nonsense to the parents and kids as an excuse why the MD teams keep kicking their asses.