Here's a response. If I wanted to "walk around talking behind everyone's back" this would be the place to do it. In a dark corner of the internet on a forum where my name is "anonymous." Instead, you and your insecurities cannot handle the idea that somebody may simply be imparting a bit of gained wisdom and instead like a child you demand "specifics."
You may be role-playing for all I know, after all this is an anonymous forum. However, the insecure, overly-competitive, vicarious glory-seeking, and short-term self-satisfaction embracing people that I had in mind when I made the statement above regarding toxicity would have likely responded exactly how you did.
