Most do ride the bench because everyone wants to be on last years winning top five teams. Instead go to up an coming programs ie High Point or Jacksonville. You’ll get the same “ lacrosse education “ as Duke or UVA but you may get to a chance to make an impact t vs sitting. What’s better: to say you didn’t play but we’re on a National Championship Team or I played at High Point where now I’m in of the best PLL players.