The recruiting process is a tough dose of reality. Most parents (myself included) feel their daughters should get more attention. There are "preferred clubs" college coaches may go to and it's frustrating. Coaches only have so many hours in the day and they are always looking for the best players they can get. Coaches that watch games and not all star lists are generally rewarded. All of college sporting recruiting is "unfair", it's not just lacrosse. Try looking at high school football and basketball, powerhouse high schools dominate recruiting. It's the entire recruiting landscape across all sports. Lacrosse offers the girls amazing opportunities, but it's not easy. Good luck to all!