Here is a recap of my daugher's recruiting process: She is a '21, rated on the rise (50-100) by IL. We were "lucky" to start the process early, since the jr year rule hadn't yet come into effect. My daughter went to school camps at most of her top targets. She played for a club team that was ranked in / out of the top 10 - so she was able to play against all the top teams - which meant that all the various colleges watched them play over a 2+ year period. Our club director guided us well to keeping an evolving top 20 target school list. She then worked diligently to get feedback from those schools - most, but not all, schools would let her know if they had interest. My daughter went into 9/1 with a good sense of where there was mutual interest. On 9/1 she heard from most of those schools, a few disappeared and a few desirable ones popped up. Many others reached out where unfortunately she did not have much interest (due to academics and / or level of lacrosse). She spent a lot of time fielding all calls, being appreciative etc., and then calling all those coaches back to let them know of her position. She was not recruited by the top few lacrosse programs, but was a solid target for the rest of the top 30 group. On 9/1, a couple things to be aware of: generally the head coach calls the top targets, starting at the top top first thing in the AM. the top assistant will call the next group, etc. You can often read into where you are for them based on who calls and when. For many of the schools at the top of my daughter's list - she was somewhere in the middle for them. A few schools said things like "we are moving a little slowly" when it came to scheduling visits, in hindsight that was code for "we are targeting a few others at your position, and are not yet ready to offer you". Also, many schools did unofficials, leaving official visits for the committed class to do together at a later time. The school where my daughter ended up was one of her top targets, the coach gave her time to decide, and fortunately it all worked out. Hope this is useful.
