Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm new to all of this so I am wondering this. If your daughter got a call from a top ranked D1 school right after midnight that is a good indication they are very interested in her , correct ?

Hopefully this can be helpful to some.

- Remember, your daughter is not going through this process in a vacuum, coaches are talking to multiple recruits and the decisions made by other recruits and coaches impacts everyone else including your daughter.

- Remember, the process is very fluid, things can and do change rapidly.

- Remember, The recruiting process (in most cases) will let players and parents know where the player stands in relation to the field.

- Remember, it is a process, for the majority of players the process will take some time.

- Remember, stay positive and help your daughter to do the same.

- Remember, focus on what you can control and do not get caught up with things that you can not control. i.e. who commits where, what coaches call, what coaches do not call etc...

- Remember, it is okay for your daughter to be persistent when expressing interest to a coach, just do not be a pain in the a$$.

- Remember, coaches want players who want to go to their school and play for them, make sure the schools your daughter is truly interested in are fully aware of her genuine interest.

- Remember, if a coach is willing to engage in the process with your daughter (talk with, meet with etc...) but is not willing to make an offer it is most likely because they are still trying to land girls that they have ranked higher on their list. That's okay, no program gets all of the players that they want.