Exactly. They'll get to play summer lacrosse. They'll make better friends than their school team friends. And they'll win some games and lose some games. And they'll have some fun going to dinner and hanging with new friends and families. And through all this they'll improve their lax skills by playing more. Is any of this really that bad? Blue team is blue team. You don't always have to be on the very best team to improve skills, build endurance, and have fun.