No, they should just say, thanks but no thanks, i don't really want the money! Seriously, i have no dog in this fight, but you like the club or you don't. I don't see why there is a need to act like a petulant child. if the parents want to pay for their daughter to be on a "C" team, then let them do it. Maybe they enjoy it. Not everyone has to be recruited to a top 5 program to make this a worthwhile endeavor.