People need to be realistic. If your kid is ok you can play D3 lacrosse in college at schools just by playing PAL, High School and by going to a few camps with a video. If you love it and want the travel experience there will always be a club to take your registration. If want to play at D1 Northwestern that was pretty much decided at birth and no amount of clinics and personal training can change that
Some of these kids are genetic freaks of athleticism and barely need to condition or train and they remain among the elite few. Others are a step below, merely great athletes and can remain among the elite by working hard on skills and staying in shape. That's it, you can not take just a decent kid athletically and turn them into something they are not, sorry if that's you. Good news is your daughter does have a better chance playing at the next level just by being a decent athlete playing lax on LI, which is not possible in other sports, but please put it in context.
