For all you how shall we say, tightly wound parents of 7th graders. Don't lose sight of the academics and the career dreams of your kids. Many on here speak like what color team you are on is the end all be all. Years from now many will look back and say what was I thinking! If you are truly honest with yourselves, you will see that a lot of this is more about the parents then the kids. Chillax all this really doesn't mean much. Come back after your first couple of daughters are done with lacrosse and I bet you say the same thing.