It's crazy that so many people have so much to say about other teams, why do you care? If your daughter is happy, growing and having fun that's all you should care about. Not all kids have a desire to play on a "top" team or even have the skill to do so but that doesn't mean they shouldn't play. Put your kid where they will succeed and have confidence and don't worry about what anyone else says. There are great people on every team and there are crazies on every team, you'll know if a team is right for your child and your family.