Please don't patronize us with your drivel. My on age kid will be good at what he does (school, lacrosse, etc) because he works hard at it. If he doesn't work at it - he won't. Hard work leads to success.
However, pretending that a kid who is 16 in the 8th (Crabs) does not have a huge advantage over the kids he is playing against is complete nonsense. If you are holding your kid back for lacrosse - you are the problem. Have your kid play against his own peers rather than younger kids. It's a shame he can't compete so you feel the need to game the system. Life is tough...
If you read what I wrote I was specifically commenting about the complaints about kids being three freaking days or weeks older than the cut off date to be "on age"
