The bullies sound like the parents who can't understand why there kids don't play and don't win. Of course everybody and anybody can do a better job. So typical, and always the case, when a season doesn't turn out like expected. Ultimately the girls are responsible for the outcome. Sounds to me as if this team was maybe a little, or maybe alot overrated!
Two major problems with your post: 1. These issues have been going on since before the season started. It had nothing to do with wins or losses or how the season ended 2. Almost all of the girls/parents who are unhappy are starters. Therefore it has absolutely nothing to do with playing time.