This is 2028, right? Kids are still in Middle School, right? College coaches are NOT looking at them at tournaments right now. There are top clubs that DO NOT play equal playing (unless this is something new). M&D DID NOT play equal playing. Yes, when they get to HIGH SCHOOL, the "equal" playing may change BUT you will still have your BEST players on the filed the majority of the time. FACT!
There are girls that are content with being on a "TOP" team and barely see the field.