I'm sorry but I find what you did to be a disgrace. You held your kid back for purely athletic reasons. What are the social implications your son is now faced with? Is it really worth it for a chance to play college lax? So now he's looked at in school as the kid left back so he can be better in lacrosse than the other kids. Great way to make new friends. I'm sorry but I disagree with all this reclassifying for athletics. Not the greatest lesson taught to children....if you can't make it against your peers---beat younger kids.