Please stop telling people to not be upset that other people cheat. Simply stated holdbacks are cheaters. Yes no one stops them now but no one tests for PED’s in kids club lacrosse either but I bet you would be upset if a 200lb 7th grader hopped up on steroids ran your kid over and injured him. Some of these holdbacks are 2 years older. If they are a couple of years into puberty when your kid hasn’t hit puberty yet there can be a huge size and strength disparity which brings about an added level of danger beyond what would normally be accepted in an age based contact sport.