Without going into a lengthy diatribe, the bottom line is that HS varsity coaches who also direct travel programs should not EXPECT kids to play for them in both arenas. Nothing but problems, punishment, resentments, favoritism, dysfunction and bad blood. Unhappy kids and parents are stuck. Kids just quit. Zero fun.
In towns like Manhasset and GC, some really good players will not be starters until senior year - if then even. Do the math - lots of kids on travel teams and limited spots on HS team with 4 years competing for time. And everyone thinks their kids the best player at their position. You can't all be right!
