Originally Posted by Anonymous
A lot of time spent here by parents obsessing over a top 20 lacrosse offer, doubtful the kids want it, more of an obsession coming from parents. Truth be told, when you fully explain to a kid what the investment is, sacrifice, risk of not seeing the field and lack of payoff at the end of those 4 years of college are to play at that level, most would choose otherwise.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
A lot of time spent here by parents obsessing over a top 20 lacrosse offer, doubtful the kids want it, more of an obsession coming from parents. Truth be told, when you fully explain to a kid what the investment is, sacrifice, risk of not seeing the field and lack of payoff at the end of those 4 years of college are to play at that level, most would choose otherwise.

Agree that some parents definitely care more.

However lots of kids (not sure if majority) but definitely more than a few just want to use lax to get in the best college they can and really don’t care if they ever see the field.