If this response and the previous post regarding a sad day on the south shore were written by a Bay Shore parent or coach with the "A" team which apparently just lost 2 players, I, as a BS parent who is not part of the great "A" team, would like to point out your extreme hypocrisy. You feel bad for the boys who didn't make their town teams, and the communities, but do not mention how you secretly orchestrated to make your "A" team and tournament teams without giving every boy in BS an opportunity. Was that good for the BS community and the "B" kids? Did you ever feel bad for them? As far as recruiting and controversial wins go, why don't you mention how you often recruit that player from Islip to play with you at the expense of other BS boys who might like or deserve an opportunity; funny how his assists and goals and those wins aren't controversial. Nothing made you sad when you benefitted but now you claim to be so sad about so many things you are guilty of yourself, and you want sympathy, to judge others and pretend to be above it all, please! As for respect, I'm not sure you deserve any.