Listen this conversation is so tiresome. Holding a kid back in youth is lame. End of discussion. Lame. Not illegal. Not against the rules. The word is weak. The word is lame. No valid excuse doing this. This group isn’t in youth anymore. Now it’s about HS. Soon college. It’s good for the future youth kids that the rule is changing. So weak parents won’t be playing their kids down to make them look like studs.