It's called justifying and that's what you sad people are trying to do. Do you people have any concept of right or wrong, black or white and good vs bad. There is a line as parents, coaches and mentors that should not be crossed. If we justify bad actions what are we teaching our kids, cheat on a test as long as you don't get caught. We are not lacrosse parents we are parents and not immuned to raising kids with poor character.
