Regarding 91...I am a 91 parent, but both of my kids have played a variety of travel sports, and in my opinion, there is no higher proportion of crazy lunatic 91 parents than there is for any other LI lax club, or any soccer program, or basketball, etc. Go to a big soccer tournament sometime and get a load of the some of the parent sideline antics. There is a standard distribution of people in all walks of life where some people are a*holes, some are super-nice, and plenty fall somewhere in between.