Good for her. I'm so happy for the girl and her parents. I don't really see anything wrong with the early commitments. Just because your daughter is not getting any looks - you should not put others down or begrudge them for their decisions. What's is good for yours may not be good for others. Is this your first kid in this?
i would rather my 8th grade daughter get recruited by several of the top high schools in our area...which she is, than be recruited by a college she may not want to end up attending. its better for 13 and 14 year olds to be able to take the time to visit and learn about the colleges they may like to attend. But that is just my opinion and the IWLCA and NCAA agree with it
