loyo29- After seeing some of your posts. It looks like you are the one all wound up and insecure. Take your own advice and have your kid play with friends and enjoy her time playing. No need to try to be the smartest one in the room by stating the obvious. Worry about he real issues? What??? For sure this is not the right forum for parenting. This forum is informative at times, funny at times, fake news at times, and busting chops most of the time. You obviously are the one too "wound" up for back of cage banter.