If you want equal playing time go play for another club that doesn't teach their kids to be winners. You don't learn how to win by "playing everyone". Those who don't play should know they are there to fill the roster, and will get better by being around the real players on their team. They can then go back to their school team and play more. So even though they are not playing much with their JY teams, they can play more with their HS teams. It's not fair that my daughter needs to slow her progress because lesser players want their less skilled kids to play equally. Just be happy you get to practice with girls at this level. Observe and you will see what it takes, then go do it.
We all know who the cry-baby parents are, and that's why we stay away from you. | 
