Kids learn better by being pushed? Someone watched too much Doogie Howser, M.D. growing up.
Kids aren't robots, they're all different. Who are you to say what age is appropriate any more than the government. Let schools and parents decide.
The egos on this site are something else.
90% of the holdbacks have parents who played lower level D1 or D3, knowing the holdback extra advantage will get them to higher level D1.
