You are missing the other side of that. Some girls actually do play in College who don’t care about the Championship. They want to continue to play in College, have fun & get a degree. You don’t have to be a winner to be “elite”-you could have left that last sentence out. It is THEIR choice, unfortunately too many parents on here are trying to live through their daughters & think playing at a “top 10” school is the only way to go | 
