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When your Child is in 10th grade start going to college camps so the college coaches can see your child if they have interest they will look at their sports recruits site for video of how they play their position. If they like what they see they will reach out when they are allowed to contact your child. There is a college for everyone who plays it depends on their skill level and how much they want to play in college top D1 programs you may not see the field until junior or senior year unless they are exceptional or a two year holdback | 
